Biggest flaw

Sailor Moon · Post by **Sailor Moon** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 3:58 pm

What's your biggest flaw, the history of it, or a flaw you wish would just dissapear? It could also be a habit.

EDIT: I'm editing my flaws. Since the first one is basically online, I'm making another one for a real life ones.

I'm a crybaby. I'm a big crybaby. I can cry pretty easily.

I am clumsy. I can be very clumsy sometimes.

I'm obsessive compulsive. My obsessive-compulsiveness makes me have a major flaw. What's one of my biggest flaws? For me, it's repeating myself. (Big surprise there.) Actually, repeating myself is an online flaw. In real life, I don't really repeat myself as much. But online I do and I also do in my diaries. Even I get tired of hearing (well watching, since it's online and in my hand-written diaries) myself saying the same things over and over and over again, but it just comes out. I often wince when I look back at exactly how much I have repeated myself. My home diaries have got to be the most repetetive diaries ever. It seems like, regarding the internet, that when I have an opinion, I'm worried that if I don't say it a bazillion times, someone won't know it's my opinion and will assume the wrong thing. It used to be different. I used to be fun to talk to online on messageboards. I used to not repeat myself. When I was young, the first few times I repeated myself, it used to be considered adorable and cute. Now it just looks like I'm a nutcase. I miss the days when I wouldn't repeat myself.

I will now mention a real life flaw of mine, since that one was basically an online one. Get ready for this one.

I care too much about people. Yes, it is a flaw. I want everyone to be happy. Everyone. Fictional people, real people, animals, anime characters, video game characters, I even felt sorry for Saddam Hussein because he looked sad in the picture he took when he was arrested. I get really upset when a fictional character is upset. I cry watching fictional characters upset. I think about it a lot. I also feel the need to get worried that someone doesn't know something. If someone is not informed that their are a lot of things in a certain series they like, and they don't know of thsoe things, I feel the need to inform them. If someone thinsk something wrong about something, like they didn't realize something, I feel the need to help them understand the true thing. I constantly care so much about people, that it drives me nuts. I care too much about people, whether real or fictional.

So, what's a flaw or habit you have that you wish would just dissapear?

ParaKiss_Groupie · Post by **ParaKiss_Groupie** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 5:13 pm

I'm clingy, emotional, and rash. Meaning I get insulted easily, and act on it quickly. I'm sure it's been seen on the forums here, and the people who I'm close with deal with it all the time. But, I can't help it. I'm growing up, trying harder not to be that way. It's helping, but I'm still quick to bite off heads.

Chibi Son Gokou · Post by **Chibi Son Gokou** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 7:47 pm

Obviously stereotyping, making false assumptions, and getting upset over negativity towards me even though it's minimal.

jupiter23 · Post by **jupiter23** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 8:04 pm

If I'm nice to people, I get walked on. If I try to be stronger, I come across as a bitch. It's hard to find the medium in there.

Tempest · Post by **Tempest** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 8:15 pm

I'm a bit obsessive compulsive, whiney, I worry about everything all the time. Much like jupiter23, I'm too soft and I get walked on, or if I stand up for myself or my opinions, I'm bitchy. I'm too self-concious about my appreance and my voice.

Post by **Tiff** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 8:55 pm

I care too much abuot other people more than I do myself. I'm stubborn and can be very selfish. I'm also a tad high-maintenance, and very brash. I cry a LOT...i'm a downright crybaby lol

Lady of the Light · Post by **Lady of the Light** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 10:28 pm

I don't show enough emotion. My friends all know that I care and such, but people who don't know the real me all think I'm just one, heartless and evil bitch. Which I am at times, but I have a heart too...

yoshmaster5 · Post by **yoshmaster5** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 10:47 pm

I'm too shy. at school, I almost NEVER talk to anyone. only a few kids I'll talk to.

I also suffer from mental depression... I take zoloft for it. it sucks. I'll start crying when something reminds me of Kansas *lived there my whole life* because it makes me homesick, and I've lived in MI since march last year.

I really care about others, but usually they think i'm an idiot or a nerd. something like that...

Ni-ban Neko · Post by **Ni-ban Neko** » Mon Apr 12, 2004 10:52 pm

Procrastination is my number one.

I don't open up easily, even around people I know well. I don't want to weigh them down with my stuff.

I worry. I care about other people more than myself.

Sailorasteroid · Post by **Sailorasteroid** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 8:44 am

I have a gross inability to make chit-chat or small talk, so I have a hard time with first impressions. For me it's impossible to talk without discussing some idea or opinion I have, or at the very least talking about myself. Also, I can be very uncharitable--if I think someone is full of BS, I don't hesitate in pointing it out, even if it's just a foible or idiosyncrasy.

Cardcaptor Takato · Post by **Cardcaptor Takato** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 9:16 am

I have a bad habit of putting my foot into my mouth. Often times, especially when debating about something, I'll accidentally say something I don't really mean or say it in a way that offends the other person. I also worry about things too much. I worry if someone hates me or if I'm talking to someone new and if they're going to hate me or not. I also have a problem of discussing about my interests and expressing my feelings offline. I have no problems doing that online because I find it easier to do so through typing than talking, but offline I get nervous when someone asks me what I like or what's my opinion on a certain discussion they're having at the moment.

Chibi Son Gokou · Post by **Chibi Son Gokou** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 4:50 pm

Wow, I'm like a lot of people on this MB.

yamijounouchi · Post by **yamijounouchi** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 6:10 pm

i'd say i hate people too easily.

MonkeyDLuffy · Post by **MonkeyDLuffy** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 7:11 pm

I take things too personal, I over react, I give off this "silent type person" vibe that people get scared of when I start talking a lot. I don't find myself attractive, which leads me to hate myself v_v, I get distracted easily (shiny stuff especially *__*), I make friends fast but enimies faster, and I have road rage (and proud

).

Sailorasteroid · Post by **Sailorasteroid** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 7:39 pm

MonkeyDLuffy wrote:. . . and I have road rage (and proud ).

Ooh, I can identify with that one, only I don't consider it a flaw, because they built the roads so I can get where I want to go, not so these morons can get in front of me making me slow down 5 kph. And I swear, I would run all of you bastards off the road to your fiery deaths to get me home 5 seconds earlier!

At least, that's what I yell from my car when stuck in traffic. I don't worry about it blowing up into a violent incident. Under pressure, I'm a pussycat.

EDIT: I'm pre-emptively splitting this off to its own post. Here

Chibi Son Gokou · Post by **Chibi Son Gokou** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 8:26 pm

Sailorasteroid wrote:
MonkeyDLuffy wrote:. . . and I have road rage (and proud ).
Ooh, I can identify with that one, only I don't consider it a flaw, because they built the roads so I can get where I want to go, not so these morons can get in front of me making me slow down 5 kph. And I swear, I would run all of you bastards off the road to your fiery deaths to get me home 5 seconds earlier!

At least, that's what I yell from my car when stuck in traffic. I don't worry about it blowing up into a violent incident. Under pressure, I'm a pussycat.

Driving does piss me off as well. Titusville, FL is one of the worst places to drive (obviously there are worse places). There's always construction being done on the median or by the traffic lights and whatnot. The traffic lights on US1 are the sensitive type (the type of lights that automatically change once a single car pulls up to the intersection). I end up having to change lanes (if I can) about 12 times per mile because there's always some old person driving 40 miles under the speed limit in BOTH LANES. I also hate it when these assholes in their big trucks pull out in front of you without even seeing that you're coming first, causing me to slam on my breaks (which would be devisating if the road was wet since I don't have anti-lock breaks). I also hate it when people tailgate me. Where I live, I get tailgated even when I'm doing 75-80 mph in a 55 mph speed zone.

Specter · Post by **Specter** » Tue Apr 13, 2004 9:37 pm

I can't make small talk either, which retards my ability to converse with everyone, which kind of makes me a silent type.

EDIT: This also makes me tend to be more of a lurker on message boards, instead of a poster.

NameGoesHere · Post by **NameGoesHere** » Wed Apr 14, 2004 12:03 am

I have a lot strong opinions but I can never seem to voice them correctly. People often times come to dislike me because of my tendency to misspeak my true feelings. I always seem to come across as uneducated and quick to judge, and sometimes even spiteful of other people. All of which I try very hard not to be.

I'm highly reserved with my emotions. I don't like to talk to anyone about my emotional or physical pain, because I don't want to weigh down others with my problems. My problems are my own and I will deal with them, which is one of the things that make me fiercely independent as well.

I can be pretty harsh sometimes. I expect people to be strong enough to deal with their own problems, and if they can't, I expect them to follow my lead so I can fix their problems for them. If someone asks for my leadership then they had better be prepared to step out of the way and let me do my job. I always accept constructive criticism, but if it isn't constructive then shut up. ^_^;;

Chibi Son Gokou · Post by **Chibi Son Gokou** » Wed Apr 14, 2004 11:44 am

I go off on a lot of tangents, which causes new threads to be opened ^^

DistantMemory · Post by **DistantMemory** » Wed Apr 14, 2004 12:32 pm

My biggest flaws are that I'm very shy. I could never do oral presentations successfully and, like yoshmaster, I only have a few people I can speak to. I also tend to be a bit of a crybaby, and a very selfish one at that.

I hold back my emotions constantly. Whenever someone picks on my friend, I always want to beat up her offender. However, the only way to release my anger would be to cry my eyes out since I'm too scared of what could happen to either me OR her bully if I did go nuts on him.