love is destructive

dragonofparadise · Post by **dragonofparadise** » Thu Aug 04, 2005 7:00 pm

Im opening this thread i wanted to see what kind of experiences other people had. what girl/boy problems you have had. for me i feel like girls have constantly rejected me. After the thread grows ill expand on it.

Usagi04 · Post by **Usagi04** » Thu Aug 04, 2005 7:37 pm

This thread reminds me of a ex-boyfriend of mine. We were dating and he had to move to NY, so we had to have a long distance relationship. We talked on the phone and online everyday, and took trips to see each other. So around March, he informs me that he is losing interest in me, and dumps me for a gothic girl. Strange thing is, he didn't tell me it was another girl, I had to hear it from everyone else, which is embrassing when everyone but you knows. We dated for a little over a year. I met someone at the beach last week who is a very nice guy, so I think in the end, I did much better.

Gawthy · Post by **Gawthy** » Fri Aug 05, 2005 1:24 pm

I think my absolute WORST experience with a guy was about 2 years ago. I knew him for around 5 years from the internet and met him at Otakon '04. We hit it off really well and when we broke up with our significant othes we started semi-dating. I never made it official because at that time I believed I was not ready to have a long term relationship. He even drove out from where he lived to come to my homecoming. Nifty, ne? Well that was fun but shortly after he Ims me at around midnight and says that he has a girlfriend and signs off before we had a chance to talk to much about it. It was the absolute worst I have ever felt in my life. The worst thing is that I continued to care for him well into all my other relationships. He still IMs me every now and then and I get insane doubts about the relationship I am in now. Even after a year with my current I still find myself thinking what if.

DreamEmpress · Post by **DreamEmpress** » Fri Aug 05, 2005 7:24 pm

I can't pick a worst experience. There's just too many.

A couple years or so ago I was in a year long relationship with a guy. He was cute and very smart. I worshiped the ground he walked on. (that's probably where I went wrong) I thought things were going fairly well and that if I kept giving him time, things would work out. Unfortunately he didn't feel it was going anywhere. I tried to show interest in his hobbies and it took a whole year just for him to give me a kiss on the forehead. My world crashed when he broke up with me. He had proposed to a girl that had rejected him a year before and she finally said yes. That's also when he finally admited that I was his girlfriend. I'd waited a year to hear those words and that's how they got delivered, on the back of a rejection. Thankfully there's justice. His fiancee dumped him a couple months or so later because she was still in love with her ex. Stupidly, I was willing to give him a second chance and he still rejects me. Life is cruel.

One guy I dated on and off for two or three years. He only asked me out if it was convienent for him. I think we dated a combined total of two months...maybe. That was another waste of time.

Another relationship I had was online. He was very sweet, but never kept his promises. We were together for a few months and he never visited. Later I found out he had slept with another girl while promising his heart and loyalty to me. I swear, I'm a glutton for punishment. Although he wasn't the first online boyfriend to do that to me. One dumped me when I went to visit him. That really hurt.

It took getting through a few rough relationships to finally get to my current one. it's a lot healthier than any of those and I'm couldn't be happier.

Sylphiel · Post by **Sylphiel** » Fri Aug 05, 2005 7:32 pm

DreamEmpress wrote:I can't pick a worst experience. There's just too many.

Stole the words right out of my head.

mizangelamy · Post by **mizangelamy** » Sat Aug 06, 2005 1:04 pm

Well mine just happened recently. I met my ex at the end of my Jr yr in high school. He gave me his number on the last day of school. A couple of weeks later I called him and we hit it off great. I didnt see him for 2 months but then he came over and we had our first kiss. When school started we were Seniors and did everything together nothing can spearted us. He was the first one that gave me roses and all the good stuff. He even told me he loved me and wanted to marry me. I was so happy that someone truely loved me. Until now he left me saying that "he need to get his life strighten out" but I found out he had another gf who was now my former friend of mine. It sucks truely that a guy can break your heart so easily. Now these days I dont feel like dating anymore ever since that dick did to me.